CONNECTING WITH YOUR TEENS
Being a parent is not an easy task. It’s a 24/7 job that sometimes comes with little to no appreciation for the hard work you do. As your child grows up the level of dependency starts to decrease. You remember when your child would come home from school and talk non-stop about their day, what they had for lunch and who they played with on the playground. Now you have a teenager who comes in the house after school and barely says Hi to you. You look over and your teenager is glued to their cellphone. What happened? It’s all part of growing and maturing. According to healthychild.org you have to realize that teenagers are no longer children, but they are not yet adults. Teenagers are testing their new independent roles. Here are few tips to help you connect with your teens:
- Make a habit of talking about whatever makes your teen happy-No matter their interest sports, music, clothing TV, video games, friends, school–ask questions and learn what’s going on
- Try to eat together whenever possible
- Answer questions directly and honestly
- Notice your teens feelings–“You seem upset about your relationship with”_______
- Be aware of your own reactions and emotions
- Offer your opinions without lecturing and judging
- Give all of your attention
- Offer Assistance
Building a strong communication foundation with your teens fosters a strong
For more tips visit www.healthychild.org